Notes To My Younger Self

 

When others complain about being in pain, being tired, being frustrated—suffering in some manner—be open to offering advice and, at times, even helping. But as you are offering suggestions that might ease their discomfort, remember that your brainstorming, your words, ideas, action…

Notes To My Younger Self

 

There are pros and cons to everything. When you find yourself getting irritated or frustrated or about to start to complain about someone, something, some circumstance, stop, and start a pro/con list; Grab a sheet of paper, type a note on your…

Notes To My Younger Self:

 

You are worthy, you are enough exactly the way you are. E.L. Chappel author of Spirit Dance/Storm Makers/Coming very soon: The Surge Let go, breathe and believe. (Tea leaf wisdom.) aka The Glamorous Wife  

Notes To My Younger Self

 

In your life you will come across people who will run towards you and people who will run away from you. Ones who will include you, and others who will go to great lengths to exclude you from the pack. Although the…

Notes To My Younger Self

 

You will be treated unfairly; No matter how hard you try, no matter how much you genuinely extend yourself, no matter how sincere your intentions. Try to remember that fair isn’t the goal—life isn’t about the illusion of control. Life isn’t a…

Notes To My Younger Self

 

“It’s only possible to live happily ever after on a day-to-day basis.” Margaret Bonnano E.L Chappel author of Spirit Dance/Storm Makers/Coming Very Soon: The Surge Be in the moment aka The Glamorous Wife

Notes To My Younger Self

 

“You must dare to show up and let yourself be seen.” Brene Brown, Daring Greatly E.L. Chappel author Spirit Dance/Storm Makers/Coming very soon: The Surge Have the courage to be vulnerable. aka The Glamorous Wife

Notes To My Younger Self

 

“Judge not your beauty by the number of people that look at you, but by the number of people who smile at you.” ~African proverb E.L. Chappel author of Spirit Dance/Storm Makers/Coming very soon: The Surge It’s not outer shell that matters,…

Notes To My Younger Self

 

When feeling at odds with someone, do your best to see situations from 41000′. Remove yourself—including your emotions— step back, and ask “what does this person want?” If you don’t know what they want, ask them. Be curious and try to understand…

Notes To My Younger Self

 

IMG_0140 Know that every person is gifted and their mission while on this planet is unique. What might be a small challenge for you could be an enormous challenge for someone else. What might be a huge struggle for you might be…