Notes To My Younger Self:

Seat-of-the-pants: 

Merriam Webster: employing or based on personal experience—past or present—judgment, and effort rather than technological aids or formal theory seat-of-the-pants navigation a seat-of-the-pants decision.

Dictionary .com: using or based on experience, instinct or guesswork. Done without the aid of instruments.

Your dictionary.com: done by feel, guess, or trial and error rather than careful planning, thought or technique.

E.L. Chappel author of Spirit Dance/Storm Makers/Coming very soon: The Surge

When it comes to going after your dreams, resist the urge to fly by the seat of your pants.

aka: A woman with a purpose