Posts by E.L. Chappel

If you’re trying to make a decision and find yourself going back and forth, not knowing which way to go, understand the confusion stems from not having all the required information at that moment. So instead of agonizing over your choice, burning valuable energy, just wait. Trust that the information will come when the time…

  We’re all doing whatever we can to find happiness. So when you question if someone’s actions are a result of something you’ve done, think again. Most times, it’s about them. It’s about what they’re doing to feel good, Don’t take it personally. If it isn’t about you, then it can’t be meant to hurt…

Use negative thoughts and feelings productively. Don’t let their energies interfere with your peace, your joy and your life’s work. E.L. Chappel author of Spirit Dance/Storm Makers/Coming very, very soon: The Surge It’s always okay to have all sorts of feelings. They’re real, and part of you. It’s what you do with them that matters.…

You’re going to mess up. Plenty. So when you make a mistake, apologize. Be sincere and explain how the misstep happened. Understand though, that your apology may not be accepted. It may not write the wrong and there’s always the chance you won’t be forgiven. Do it anyway. E.L. Chappel author of Spirit Dance/Storm Makers/Coming…

Being exceptional at anything will take an enormous amount of time and focus. Meaning that other parts of your life will be sacrificed while pursuing your goals. Be sure to remain aware of this lack of balance, and once you reach what you’re striving for, go back and develop the parts you’ve put on hold.…

Love isn’t ownership—The Kitten Lady E.L. Chappel author of Spirit Dance/Storm Makers/Coming very soon: The Surge True love is excepting and inclusive and not just about you. aka The Glamorous Wife

We are all unique beings, journeying on our own adventures. So it’s a waste of time to look around and compare your path, your pace, to others. You’re not missing out. Your way is tailor made just for you. E.L Chappel author of Spirit Dance/Storm Makers/Coming very soon: The Surge The gift of all gifts.…

There are only three things worthy of getting worked up about. Lack of food and water for days, life threatening illness, and being out in the elements without adequate gear. So when you’re starting to spool up about something, check and see if it falls into any of the above criteria. If not, be sure…

Today is a new day, don’t try to force fit it into yesterday’s mold.~Sarah Young E.L. Chappel author of Spirit Dance/Storm Makers/Coming very soon: The Surge Carry your lessons from the past with you, but don’t let what you know, interfere with what you still have to learn. aka The Glamorous Wife

If competing is making you step up and achieve something at a higher level, that’s good and productive. If competing leaves you feeling anxious and looking around, distracting you from enjoying your own unique gifts, then that’s a problem. Be sure to check yourself to see which muse you are chasing. E.L. Chappel author of…